Thursday, May 21, 2020

People of the Lie: The Hope for Healing Human Evil.

knowing what the lie is would help us in our struggle to be Kingdom ready. In order to avoid the lie we must identify that lie. Lies poison us.
What is the lie refereed to?  “The lie” is self-deception, inability or unwillingness to tolerate the pain of self-reproach. The evil originates not in the absence of guilt but in the effort to escape it.
Scapegoaters, project onto others their own sins, while denying any wrongdoing, denying the working of conscience and failing to hate themselves when they should.

“The words ‘image,’ ‘appearance,’ and ‘outwardly’ are crucial to understanding the morality of those who are evil.

While they seem to lack any motivation to be good, they intensely desire to appear good. Their ‘goodness’ is all on a level of pretense. It is, in effect, a lie.

This is why they are the ‘people of the lie.’

Actually, the lie is designed not so much to deceive others as to deceive themselves.

”1 Psalm 119:29b corroborates this as God is implored to “Keep me from lying to myself.” A strange prayer to pray indeed if lying to one’s self was not only entirely plausible but undesirable as well. Proverbs 14:8b confirms that “fools deceive themselves.”

One characteristic of the people that best  describes is a failure to ever put themselves on trial.

“Unpleasant though it may be, the sense of personal sin is precisely that which keeps our sin from getting out of hand.

 It is a very great blessing because it is our one and only effective safeguard against our own proclivity for evil.”2



What then contrasts the group Jesus speaks of when he says “Blessed are the poor in spirit” (or meek as we would understand this) with the Pharisees or the fat cats of Jesus’ day. Peck asks whether pride is the most basic sin — “because all sins are reparable except the sin of believing one is without sin.”3 This is, I think, in a nutshell, the thesis and contention of the book and of Peck’s thinking. He argues it convincingly.

I wonder if anyone is just a little bit surprised and reacts by thinking — “oh, that is just hypocrisy; it has been with us from the beginning, old hat stuff, nothing new there,” etc.
I think that if I had to name what I felt was the worse possible sin, it would be betrayal, but Peck notes that all sins betray — isolating us from both God and our fellow men. Certainly there is much to consider here. Again, Peck states that “Evil originates not in the absence of guilt but in the effort to escape it.”4

He provides his readers with experiences which summarized are these: “to a greater or lesser degree, all mentally healthy individuals submit themselves to the demands of their own conscience. Not so the evil, however. In the conflict between their guilt and their will, it is the guilt that must go and the will that must win.”5

Peck portrays the scenario between Abel and Cain like this: “God’s acceptance of Abel’s sacrifice implied a criticism of Cain: Cain was less than Abel in God’s eyes.
Since he refused to acknowledge his imperfection, it was inevitable that Cain, like Satan, should take the law into his own hands and commit murder.”6
Peck aligns himself with Scripture in acknowledging that “pride goes before a fall.”


He defines this pride as a feature which “unrealistically denies our inherent sinfulness and imperfection,”7 and he affirms how very dangerous this is. Peck emphasizes that to “People of the Lie” self-deception is an integral part of their behavior; so much so that they are willing to sacrifice and harm and even destroy others in order to preserve their own self-image. He names this trait malignant narcissism and finds it to be the root of all evil and utterly perverse. “Buber states it well when he wrote of ‘the uncanny game of hide and seek in the obscurity of the soul, in which it, the single human soul, evades itself, avoids itself, hides from itself.’”8

Adding to this very challenging thesis, Peck refers to his previous book9 , and says this: “It is often the most spiritually healthy and advanced among us who are called on to suffer in ways more agonizing than anything experienced by the more ordinary.
Great leaders, when wise and well, are likely to endure degrees of anguish unknown to the common man.
Conversely, it is the unwillingness to suffer emotional pain that usually lies at the very root of emotional illness.


Those who fully experience depression, doubt, confusion, and despair may be infinitely more healthy than those who are generally certain, complacent, and self-satisfied. The denial of suffering, is, in fact, a better definition of illness than its acceptance.”10

“Evil always has something to do with lies”11 states Peck, and again he points out the danger of the self love behind these lies.

He reminds his readers that Satan is the father of lies and that his greatest power is through human belief in his lies. One has only to remember the enormous emphasis in Psalms and Proverbs on lying to make a connection with what Peck is saying.


Our culture seems to have reduced lying to no more than being untidy or late (e.g. fibs and white lies). Scripture seems to view it quite differently, i.e. the difference between being a fool and not (Isa. 44:20). “The poor, deluded fool feeds on ashes. He is trusting something that can give him no help at all. Yet he cannot bring himself to ask, ‘Is this thing, this idol that I’m holding in my hand, a lie?’”

Parenthetically let me add that Peck did not begin his practice in psychology with a view of Satan as an active being, but became a believer in the power and personality of this being as a result of what he saw and experienced.

The following is what he has come to believe: “Pervading this personality [Satan] is an active presence of hate. Satan wants to destroy us.



It is important that we understand this…To think otherwise is to be misled. Indeed, as several have commented, perhaps Satan’s best deception is its general success in concealing its own reality from the human mind.”12

And now I come to the part of the book which I found most unsettling, not because I disagreed, but because the implications are serious and disturbing.

Peck speaks about the pretense of blamelessness in today’s culture; e.g. everyone is a victim, no one is really at fault, no one made the wrong choice, these things just happen.


(He is actually relating these thoughts to a war mentality but I honestly believe that they now characterize much of our thinking. It’s a “You’re OK, I’m OK, and that’s OK” kind of mentality.) Says Peck: “I denounce the position of ethical hopelessness, this abrogation of our capacity for moral judgment. I can think of nothing that would fill Satan with greater glee or better signify the ultimate success of its conquest of the human race than an attitude on the part of humans that it is impossible to identify evil.”13

I find it heartbreaking that this lie which Peck speaks of (the pretense of blamelessness, etc.) has become somewhat prominent in the counseling field where the “move on” approach seems to have done away with repentance, and remorse is unnecessary.

The sorrow and remorse which accompany guilt and recognition of wrongdoing are good emotions, not to be avoided or done away with. They are cleansing tools and an integral part of a healing process. The only way out is through, not avoidance.
The Shadow Knows.
The Danger of Knowing but Not Responding.
Make No Mistakes where the Focus of this Society is Inward, not Outward.

Let us not rewrite the story of the prodigal son to say that if the son sneered and swaggered into his father’s house and demanded certain things then the father would react in much the same way as he did, hugging his neck, having a feast prepared, etc. Do you think?!

 I get the impression, even from some Christian counselors, that there was nothing required of the son; moving on is all that matters. Repentance seems to have been done away with, considered unnecessary, replaced by group hugs. I very much fear that Peck is correct in identifying an abrogation of moral judgment; friends and I have seen this at work in the counseling arena, accompanied by an unwillingness or inability to recognize sin. And yet Proverbs 28:13b tells us that the confession of sin and the forsaking of it will gain us the mercy we all desire.

Dare we change the modus operandi as given to us in Scripture? In one sense, all of Scripture is a story of repentance and forgiveness.
It is God’s invitation to change direction and walk a new path. But it is also a conversation which we must have.
If one half of the agreement is removed (our part) in favor of a moving on approach, we have done it our way, and not God’s way. “For evil arises in the refusal to acknowledge our own sins.”14 Could we be at the point described in Psalm 12:8 where “evil is praised throughout the land”? Doing away with repentance is doing away with conscience and according to Dr. Peck’s thesis that would be a major disaster.

Peck does a wonderful job of revealing how devastating lies are, and too, how damaging it is to ignore or in other ways escape from one’s conscience.

I am reminded of lepers and the fact that they cannot feel the pain which acts as a signal to escape, i.e. burning one’s fingers by touching a hot stove.

The nerve endings which cause one to immediately retreat are, in fact, a blessing, saving one from further harm.

So too, an active and functional conscience is our friend, preventing disaster. And should we fail, God has allowed us to be blessed by guilt.

Peck’s intense concentration on lies causes me to consider truth and how dangerous it is to be without it.



We are all prey to the propaganda that truth is only subjective. The very idea of truth or a search for truth may sound foreign, and yet truth should be injected into every thought, every expectation, moral view, value system and philosophy that we operate from. One of the most important things we can do to have greater self-control is to identify lies. They then lose their power over us. We do this by countering the lie with the truth and denouncing the “lie in my right hand.”

Dr. Peck emphasizes that one of the most important reasons for identifying evil is the healing of its victims as his subtitle states: “The hope for healing human evil.” I am reminded of Proverbs 17:15 which warns us that “The Lord despises those who acquit the guilty and condemn the innocent.”

Very interesting as it appears that one is as bad as the other. We must not be guilty of either one. It is incumbent upon us to recognize the lie so as to disown it. It is further and absolutely required of us to walk in the truth.

 The sole point of concentrating on this evil side of our nature and on the Evil One who tempts us is not to badger/berate/condemn but to help/heal/equip all of us who are at risk. The People of the Lie are not correctible. That is their great sin.



Both the Psalms and the Proverbs are treatises on that correction which we all need: if you are this, then you must become that. What does it mean to be meek? Our hope lies there, as not only will these be recognized by our Father but rewarded with that promised land we have all heard of. I think a good synopsis might be this from 2 Chronicles 7:14: “Then if my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sins and heal their land.” And the conclusion of the matter: “The sacrifice you want is a broken spirit, a broken and repentant heart, O God, you will not despise” (Ps. 51:17).

M. Scott Peck, M.D. Book review: (PDF) educational share.
https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/3454/2c6dd1b79a91047f85535b7ff45723357bd6.pdf?_ga=2.170845536.1924283631.1590038988-216368614.1590038988





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Tuesday, May 19, 2020

Learning From Role Models. Tired at winning yet?

Our relations with others -  and learning from them - can be one of life's gifts.
As a blessing, role models help prevent us from having to learn everything from scratch, so to speak, since if we are good listeners and observers we can avoid some of the pitfalls someone else had found on the path we are heading. 

*THE ROAD TO HELL...CHRIS REA.
*Donald Trump and the Plan of No Plan.
*Donald Trump Has No Plan.
*'you get the politicians you deserve'
*A Leopard can't change his spots - Idiom


But we must choose wisely whom we emulate, because role models may be detrimental at times.

In childhood, one of the routes of learning, for better or worse, is through our parents as primary role models. In adulthood, we have the opportunity to make a deliberate choice of role models; we can not only decide on good role models but even use negative role models appropriately, as examples of what not to do.
Donald Trump's Business Failures Were Very Real.
A big part of learning can come about through a negative role model who redundantly reflects Mr. Bumbles. 
The president is failing, and Americans are paying for his failures.
Americas problem, Mr. Bumbles supervises but all of his psychiatric instincts were wrong. Going Down Slow.

Other words, our Nations simple English before all world stages evolved in which only reflects stupid selfishness's unnecessary states of terrible confusion that never should be revered, respected or repeated.

So in learning from others, one must keenly perceive the nuances that allow us to distinguish between Good and Bad teachers. Because some  Fail to make such distinctions, many develop neuroses when they had Bad Role Models and feel they must behave the same way as other bad influential's did. One Chance.
From select some, for example, One may come to finally realize (before it's too late) a great deal about what I don't want for myself.

One of the saddest sights in the world are a people still trying to live life as usual and control their affairs when their no longer competent to do so. Usually these sorts have in no way prepared for the seriousness or the death. They have become stuck. Many will try to continue to maintain the resemblance of some kind of house but alas without much help such house can only fall into its own total destined disorder.

Paradoxically, it is from these poor souls as negative role models America must pray daily as a unified nation to a power far greater than all for the survival keys needed towards continual learning that leads to sustainable growth.
*Eric Clapton - Have you ever loved a   woman?
*The Remnant.
*Trump-induced existential anxiety has torn
  the nation apart, but it's fixable.
*If America returned to God, Scripture promises that God would further bless not curse that nation.
Prepare to Meet Your God! "The handwriting is on the wall" and the outlook is grim.

Group Learning.

*Five Definitive Characteristics of Righteous Leadership ... The five traits of righteousness that must characterize a nation.

*Pablo Cruise 'Love Will Find A Way' Live.

*The Word of God is at Work - are you Listening?

Continuing to learn is a matter of great importance not only for individuals but also for groups.



Our sole assignments today is to do for the Bible what Christ did for prayer. The combined mission: work with others in the foundation of Community Encouragement to be healthy and "Whole"-even "holy."

When groups are healthy, their individual members are in an environment where they can learn more effectively and efficiently-about themselves and other people-than in any other place. The group itself also learns.
Conservatism has become a racket, and Trump is the grifter in chief.
Although it takes a great deal of work, including the work of unlearning, a group can develop a "conscious" of it's own which is wiser and greater than the sum of it's individual members. 
Trump, Our Grifter in Chief, Is a Global Menace.
Such groups can become extraordinarily effective decision-making bodies. 

Because healthy groups can be extraordinary productive in addressing extremely complex issues, Community development must strive toward the business of working more in businesses and other organizations that build those temporary communities collaboratively on  sound foundations that the only road ever taken must be sustainable and lasts made America Great, once Again.
My Father's Eyes.
The key issue, however, is while its always easiest to teach how to learn when in the face of crisis or other words (backs were up against the wall of no escape) whats not so easy is the field of the new frontier to be continual in all of our affairs.

More now, than ever before through Covid-19 exists great reason to believe that the matter of group heath is even more significant than that of the individual health. Just as individuals must continue to learn in order to survive well, so must our organizations and institutions. The survival of our civilization may well depend upon whether our institutions can evolve into sustainable communities and hence become ongoing learning organizations.

Educational Book Share: The Road Less Traveled and Beyond - Spiritual Growth in an Age of Anxiety. M.Scott Peck, M.D.



































Monday, May 18, 2020

Values and Learning Choices. Have you had enough of winning yet?

Three factors play central roles in our learning: attitude, temperament, and values.
Although interrelated, insofar as they can be separated, each is a valuable and separate component in learning and of itself.
Why Trump Can't Learn: An Educated Guess by a Veteran Teacher.
If Trump had been in charge during World War II, this column would be in German.

Because attitude is one's disposition or general approach to viewing things, it undoubtedly effects one's ability to learn. An atheist has has an "attitude" about religion that will affect ones perception of things. An alcoholic who is superficially religious may still have a negative attitude toward AA in general because the notion "to be powerless" is anathema to them.
Opinions | Why Trump can’t change, no matter what the consequences are.
Trump Doesn’t Care About You.



Thus part of learning is becoming conscious of our attitudes and calling them into question.

Temperament refers to the biological part of our personality. It's in our genes. That's why, even when children are very young, parents and others who spend a great deal of time with them can make fairly accurate assessments and predictions about how an individual child may respond to certain situations.
Donald Trump's mother asked: 'What kind of son have I created?'
Ivana Trump’s latest ex-husband doesn’t mince words about Donald Jr., Ivanka and Eric Trump: ‘They don’t have a heart’

Whether temperaments are irretrievably established by a certain age or set in stone at birth is a matter of debate.

Values are those qualities we deem important. And those we deem more important than others effect the choices we make and the options we perceive in life. Since we cant learn everything there is to know, we are faced with the ongoing problems of making choices based primarily on what we value the most. Consequently, throughout life we must make choices about what we are going to learn - if we have made the decision to learn at all.
The Final Lesson Donald Trump Never Learned From Roy Cohn

As the Sufi Muslim Idreies Shah said, paraphrased, "It is not enough to study. First one must determine what to study and what not to study. When to study and when not to study. And who to study with and who not to study under."


This applies not only to focused, academic learning but also to life experiences and choices about what to give our time and attention to.

In part, Idries Shah to a matter of priorities, and nowhere do I spend more of my time than trying to sort out my priorities.



Some of those priorities have to do with what to study and what not to study.
Trump Org: a magnet for dirty businessmen.
This interactive map of the world spells out President Donald Trump’s and his family’s conflicts of     interest in 25 countries around the globe.,
Tax Fraud By The Numbers: The Trump Timeline [UPDATED ...

But probably my most important choice has been that of discerning my values.

For instance, the value of integrity has come to be very high on my list of priorities.
From The Road Less Traveled, it can be discerned that another two of my primary values are dedication to reality or truth and the acceptance of appropriate responsibility.
'What We Did Was a Scam': The Apprentice Creators Give Behind the Scenes Reveal of Trump's Show
Trump and ‘Apprentice’ Creator Mark Burnett Are Discussing Their Next TV Show


Critical to this issue of accepting responsibility has been the decision to accept the pain involved in learning. The dedication to Truth is one part of being a scientist. What we call the scientific method is nothing more than a series of conventions and procedures that were adopted over the centuries in order to combat our very human tendency to want to deceive ourselves.

We practice this method out of a dedication  to something higher than our immediate intellectual or emotional comfort: namely, the Truth, Science, therefore, is an activity submitted to a higher power (except, of course, in those instances when the ego gets in the way of their search for truth).
Since once upon a time America believed God is the epitome of our higher power - God is light, God is Love, God is Truth - any thing that seeks these values are holy.
Donald Trump’s war on coronavirus is just his latest war on truth

Thus, while it cannot answer all questions, science, in its proper place, is a very holy activity.

Hunter Lewis's book A Question of Values demonstrates the people have quite different primary values upon which they base their decisions and through which they interpret the world. He Lists those values as Experience, Science, Reason, Authority, and Intuition. Lewis is unclear about when we make our choice of a primary value.
FEMA Deployed Employees Not Qualified For Disaster Work, Government Accounting Office Says
Perhaps it is not a choice at all but is something genetic. In any case,m if it is a choice, it seems to be made both unconsciously and passively during childhood. Nevertheless, we have it within our power during Adulthood to continually reassess our values and priorities.

Empiricist's, primarily value experience as the best route to knowledge and understanding.
OBAMA: You Get The Politicians You Deserve.
But Lewis goes on to talk about "hybrid value systems," and here, perhaps, is the importance of his book.
A Leopard can't change his spots - Idiom.
If we can become aware of our primary values, then, in Adulthood, we can deliberately go about nurturing other values.  Missionary man - Eurythmics - Gospel version.


For Instance, the "authority of the Scriptures" was not a great value for many during their childhood. Even today, many still do not consider the Scriptures to be "perfect" in their authority, yet God's Remnant's faithfully do and continued to delight in the studying of them, learning of them, and  putting them to us.

It is within adulthood that we have the choice (under free will) to deliberately chose to learn the intuitive skills, which were not possessed when younger.
OUR NIGHTMARE CONTINUES! Trump's Stunning Idiocy is Rising to New Highs w/ Each New Press Briefing!
Other words, one now exalted using both the right brain and the left brain, since there is more than one way we can learn, and extoll using multiple values by developing as complex a hybrid value system as possible.
So we are back to the subject of integrity and wholeness.
Hypocrite! | Sermon on the Mount
Unlike children we can practice integrity by conscious choice.


Some people find they are good at learning information or content skills and others feel more adept in relational skills. When were good at one thing and not so good at another, we tend to avoid the one thing that is difficult, or to neglect aspects of ourselves that we find uncomfortable because they are unfamiliar or seem threatening.
Henry Rollins - Liar
THE ROAD TO HELL...CHRIS REA...WITH LYRICS AND PHOTOS
In learning wholeness, we must be open to androgyny, to encompassing both components.

𝕒𝕝𝕚𝕤𝕠𝕟 𝕜𝕣𝕒𝕦𝕤𝕤 — "𝕔𝕒𝕟'𝕥 𝕗𝕚𝕟𝕕 𝕞𝕪 𝕨𝕒𝕪 𝕙𝕠𝕞𝕖" — 𝕒𝕦𝕕𝕚𝕠
We are called to be whole people. The words "health," "wholeness," and "holiness" all have the same root.
Steve Winwood and Eric Clapton - Dear Mr. Fantasy (HQ)(Crossroads Guitar Festival 2010)
It is both our psychological and our spiritual task-particularly during our second half of our life- to work toward our fullest potential as human beings, to become the best we can be. Becoming whole involves using our Talents, which can be learned or developed, but usually only with a great deal of practice and often only with the Maturity required for the humility to work on our weak sides.

Educational Book Share: The Road Less Traveled and Beyond - Spiritual Growth in an Age of Anxiety.